"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Signs of low self esteem in woman?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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devilkingx2

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1st might might apply. 2nd one is no she knew i genuinly liked her, i did alot of things for her and im not talking about money i never once gave her money. But i did solid things for her
Some low self esteem chicks are basically nuts, you could take a bullet for her and she'd wonder if you really cared or just wanted to flirt with cute nurses at the hospital
 

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2 weeks in ? Lucky b@stard.

I've had them asking after a single fvck.
Lucky you!
I had some woman ask me to take off the condom and *** inside of her on a 2nd date. Too crazy for me so I dropped her after that night. Add that to signs of a woman with low self esteem.
 

flowtheory

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Lucky you!
I had some woman ask me to take off the condom and *** inside of her on a 2nd date. Too crazy for me so I dropped her after that night. Add that to signs of a woman with low self esteem.
Never raw dog any woman. It’s like throwing a freshly polished and sharpened knife up in to the air and trying to catch the handle every time. No thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lucky you!
I had some woman ask me to take off the condom and *** inside of her on a 2nd date. Too crazy for me so I dropped her after that night. Add that to signs of a woman with low self esteem.
Nah. You're thinking too much into self esteem issues. Women have plenty of issues that doesn't make sense even to women themselves. It's best not to dwell on women issues but on men issues that we understand and give us the power to benefit/win in every situation.

Anyhow wouldn't it be simpler to think that it's just her preferences to want a you to cvm inside her ?

Then from there you have the power to decide. Doesn't matter if she wants or not, it's you that decides to your benefit.

In this case you could always deny her and continue enjoying a plate that's open to so many possibilities. Instead you're chosen to limit any possibility by thinking she's crazy.
 
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