Ryan Adams
Master Don Juan
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Ok what are some signs of low self esteem in woman? Im not talking the obvious like saying im ugly etc etc. But subtle ones.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That's a good point. If she feels the need to dress up like she's going out on a tuesday afternoon she's either an attention wh0re or insecure about her real appearanceif they have t!ts I automatically suspect low self esteem.haha j/k........ sort of.
But if we are being honest here, anybody that feels the need to paint their face with make up, wear shoes that make them taller than they are, and wear padded push up bra's should be suspect! Thats why I said what I did. A person that truly had high self esteem wouldn't feel the need to alter their appearance. Right? Please poke holes in this statement! And why do women do those things anyways?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Neediness, clinginess, asks you if you are going to leave her after you bang her. Eating disorders, no father present growing up. The list goes on and on. There are also different levels of low self esteem. Bishes with low self esteem I encounter want to be exclusive two weeks in.Ok what are some signs of low self esteem in woman? Im not talking the obvious like saying im ugly etc etc. But subtle ones.
2 weeks in ? Lucky b@stard.Neediness, clinginess, asks you if you are going to leave her after you bang her. Eating disorders, no father present growing up. The list goes on and on. There are also different levels of low self esteem. Bishes with low self esteem I encounter want to be exclusive two weeks in.
Not putting out, in the correct context. She could have hangups about sex which can be traced back to having body image issues. Lots of women struggle with sexual aspects and orgasm for reasons of self acceptance and positive body imageWow all great ways to tell. I dont get where being prude or not sexually putting out would mean low self esteem? How about this thic certain chick hated being in pictures like hated to be in any photo and dressed pretty modestly but when drunk was def a social butterfly. But in every picture it was her making an awkward smile like she didn't know how to pose. When she was in a group of people she didnt know she would get very very clingy. And she was 29 years old and partying like she was 18 like getting wasted and acting like a little girl.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Her body wasnt amazing but she was thin. No butt and really didnt have "body" but she was cute i dont see where she would be embarrased about her body. She had a stomache that of a pregnant woman though. Either she was heavier set younger which ive seen pictures and she really wasnt or she might of had a kid which is what im kinda thinking... chicks life was a mystery very very very very closed off on her family and past lifeNot putting out, in the correct context. She could have hangups about sex which can be traced back to having body image issues. Lots of women struggle with sexual aspects and orgasm for reasons of self acceptance and positive body image
Rude or prude - thinks she’s above others; many with this mindset are actually over compensating by feeling inadequate themselves.
Read the six pillars of self esteem. Great book. Very illuminating. Very constructive to build a solid sense of self and frame. Works well when coupled with many of the more positive teachings we derive through SS
If she's not confident plenty of the following could mannifest:Wow all great ways to tell. I dont get where being prude or not sexually putting out would mean low self esteem?
She dates motherfckers who post on sosuave....Ok what are some signs of low self esteem in woman? Im not talking the obvious like saying im ugly etc etc. But subtle ones.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.