SirFratserlot
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I suck, even if I find a girl I suck
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sick of girls acting like im air
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
The key is persistence. Don't be desperate, but be persistent. Right now I have 4 or 5 girls that want my jock, and I acquired them all over a year's time. Learn to be happy with yourself, too, man. You don't need women. That's where confidence comes from. It's the knowledge that no matter what happens, you're going to be happy because life is constantly peaceful/exciting/serene for you.
Do not loath over what you do not have, as that is merely a pathway to attain more.
Oh, and remember... when approaching women, you don't need to worry about nervousness. Nervousness is an illusion. It's actually excitement that has been deluded by your thoughts of what "might go wrong", so just focus on talking to her and keep negativity out of your mind.
Hope I could help, brotha.
Do not loath over what you do not have, as that is merely a pathway to attain more.
Oh, and remember... when approaching women, you don't need to worry about nervousness. Nervousness is an illusion. It's actually excitement that has been deluded by your thoughts of what "might go wrong", so just focus on talking to her and keep negativity out of your mind.
Hope I could help, brotha.
When it doubt go back to the fundamentals. Get yourself fit, make sure your posture and body language is good, up your style, and work on your social skills. Unless you completely failed in the genetic lottery and look absolutely hideous if you work on these your success will increase.
SirFratserlot
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My friends say im good looking and im muscular
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
SirFratserlot
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Im already good looking and muscularMegamanXL said:
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
PicsSirFratserlot said:
Headshot and sarging clothes
Other than that - cant help you.
no pics appear - and Ill back bigneil on calling this TROLL.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
You might have to consider relocating. I wasted two years of the most important part of my life trying to make a mark where I felt the same way-- living and working in San Jose CA. I finally realized, I had to get out of there. Since I moved to the other end of the Bay Area, my life has done nothing but improve.
SirFratserlot
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This, but im stuck where im at till I graduate collegebluenorther said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Stop worrying about these *****es. They are that stench in the air you can't put your finger on. Or someone did put their finger on, waved it around, and hence why it stinks.
You basically have to open them up and give them a chance to catch wind of you. But most likely the air around them is stale and putrid. Some will be a breath of fresh air though.
You basically have to open them up and give them a chance to catch wind of you. But most likely the air around them is stale and putrid. Some will be a breath of fresh air though.