SirFratserlot
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I suck, even if I find a girl I suck
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sick of girls acting like im air
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
The key is persistence. Don't be desperate, but be persistent. Right now I have 4 or 5 girls that want my jock, and I acquired them all over a year's time. Learn to be happy with yourself, too, man. You don't need women. That's where confidence comes from. It's the knowledge that no matter what happens, you're going to be happy because life is constantly peaceful/exciting/serene for you.
Do not loath over what you do not have, as that is merely a pathway to attain more.
Oh, and remember... when approaching women, you don't need to worry about nervousness. Nervousness is an illusion. It's actually excitement that has been deluded by your thoughts of what "might go wrong", so just focus on talking to her and keep negativity out of your mind.
Hope I could help, brotha.
Do not loath over what you do not have, as that is merely a pathway to attain more.
Oh, and remember... when approaching women, you don't need to worry about nervousness. Nervousness is an illusion. It's actually excitement that has been deluded by your thoughts of what "might go wrong", so just focus on talking to her and keep negativity out of your mind.
Hope I could help, brotha.
When it doubt go back to the fundamentals. Get yourself fit, make sure your posture and body language is good, up your style, and work on your social skills. Unless you completely failed in the genetic lottery and look absolutely hideous if you work on these your success will increase.
SirFratserlot
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My friends say im good looking and im muscular
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SirFratserlot
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Im already good looking and muscularMegamanXL said:
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
PicsSirFratserlot said:
Headshot and sarging clothes
Other than that - cant help you.
no pics appear - and Ill back bigneil on calling this TROLL.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
You might have to consider relocating. I wasted two years of the most important part of my life trying to make a mark where I felt the same way-- living and working in San Jose CA. I finally realized, I had to get out of there. Since I moved to the other end of the Bay Area, my life has done nothing but improve.
SirFratserlot
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This, but im stuck where im at till I graduate collegebluenorther said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Stop worrying about these *****es. They are that stench in the air you can't put your finger on. Or someone did put their finger on, waved it around, and hence why it stinks.
You basically have to open them up and give them a chance to catch wind of you. But most likely the air around them is stale and putrid. Some will be a breath of fresh air though.
You basically have to open them up and give them a chance to catch wind of you. But most likely the air around them is stale and putrid. Some will be a breath of fresh air though.