SirFratserlot
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I suck, even if I find a girl I suck
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sick of girls acting like im air
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
The key is persistence. Don't be desperate, but be persistent. Right now I have 4 or 5 girls that want my jock, and I acquired them all over a year's time. Learn to be happy with yourself, too, man. You don't need women. That's where confidence comes from. It's the knowledge that no matter what happens, you're going to be happy because life is constantly peaceful/exciting/serene for you.
Do not loath over what you do not have, as that is merely a pathway to attain more.
Oh, and remember... when approaching women, you don't need to worry about nervousness. Nervousness is an illusion. It's actually excitement that has been deluded by your thoughts of what "might go wrong", so just focus on talking to her and keep negativity out of your mind.
Hope I could help, brotha.
Do not loath over what you do not have, as that is merely a pathway to attain more.
Oh, and remember... when approaching women, you don't need to worry about nervousness. Nervousness is an illusion. It's actually excitement that has been deluded by your thoughts of what "might go wrong", so just focus on talking to her and keep negativity out of your mind.
Hope I could help, brotha.
When it doubt go back to the fundamentals. Get yourself fit, make sure your posture and body language is good, up your style, and work on your social skills. Unless you completely failed in the genetic lottery and look absolutely hideous if you work on these your success will increase.
SirFratserlot
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My friends say im good looking and im muscular
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SirFratserlot
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Im already good looking and muscularMegamanXL said:
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
PicsSirFratserlot said:
Headshot and sarging clothes
Other than that - cant help you.
no pics appear - and Ill back bigneil on calling this TROLL.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
You might have to consider relocating. I wasted two years of the most important part of my life trying to make a mark where I felt the same way-- living and working in San Jose CA. I finally realized, I had to get out of there. Since I moved to the other end of the Bay Area, my life has done nothing but improve.
SirFratserlot
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This, but im stuck where im at till I graduate collegebluenorther said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Stop worrying about these *****es. They are that stench in the air you can't put your finger on. Or someone did put their finger on, waved it around, and hence why it stinks.
You basically have to open them up and give them a chance to catch wind of you. But most likely the air around them is stale and putrid. Some will be a breath of fresh air though.
You basically have to open them up and give them a chance to catch wind of you. But most likely the air around them is stale and putrid. Some will be a breath of fresh air though.