SirFratserlot
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I suck, even if I find a girl I suck
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sick of girls acting like im air
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
The key is persistence. Don't be desperate, but be persistent. Right now I have 4 or 5 girls that want my jock, and I acquired them all over a year's time. Learn to be happy with yourself, too, man. You don't need women. That's where confidence comes from. It's the knowledge that no matter what happens, you're going to be happy because life is constantly peaceful/exciting/serene for you.
Do not loath over what you do not have, as that is merely a pathway to attain more.
Oh, and remember... when approaching women, you don't need to worry about nervousness. Nervousness is an illusion. It's actually excitement that has been deluded by your thoughts of what "might go wrong", so just focus on talking to her and keep negativity out of your mind.
Hope I could help, brotha.
Do not loath over what you do not have, as that is merely a pathway to attain more.
Oh, and remember... when approaching women, you don't need to worry about nervousness. Nervousness is an illusion. It's actually excitement that has been deluded by your thoughts of what "might go wrong", so just focus on talking to her and keep negativity out of your mind.
Hope I could help, brotha.
When it doubt go back to the fundamentals. Get yourself fit, make sure your posture and body language is good, up your style, and work on your social skills. Unless you completely failed in the genetic lottery and look absolutely hideous if you work on these your success will increase.
SirFratserlot
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My friends say im good looking and im muscular
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SirFratserlot
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Im already good looking and muscularMegamanXL said:
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
PicsSirFratserlot said:
Headshot and sarging clothes
Other than that - cant help you.
no pics appear - and Ill back bigneil on calling this TROLL.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
You might have to consider relocating. I wasted two years of the most important part of my life trying to make a mark where I felt the same way-- living and working in San Jose CA. I finally realized, I had to get out of there. Since I moved to the other end of the Bay Area, my life has done nothing but improve.
SirFratserlot
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This, but im stuck where im at till I graduate collegebluenorther said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Stop worrying about these *****es. They are that stench in the air you can't put your finger on. Or someone did put their finger on, waved it around, and hence why it stinks.
You basically have to open them up and give them a chance to catch wind of you. But most likely the air around them is stale and putrid. Some will be a breath of fresh air though.
You basically have to open them up and give them a chance to catch wind of you. But most likely the air around them is stale and putrid. Some will be a breath of fresh air though.