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Master Don Juan
Yea, something like this has proubly been posted before but anyway...is it me or are shy girls extremely hard to get and give mixed signals.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Shy girls
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This hasnt worked out for me yet(they never seem to want to go anywhere cept school) but you could ask her out on a "date" to the cafetria or something. They seem to warm up a bit if you send sms/IM but thats probably why it's not working for me lol.
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Master Don Juan
so ****y and funny..even if its light is out of the question with an extremely shy girl?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I'd use light C&F. If you put it on too heavily they'll probably be scared off..shy girls suck. Heh.
The Real Ice Man
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Yeah...but I'm curious how many of them are really sexual beasts waiting to be unleashed. I dunno. Maybe that kinda **** just happens in movies...
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Master Don Juan
It turns out that the girl i'm talking about is too shy to even talk ta me through frekin aim. I mean give me a break, if your gonna smile and stare at a guy and make him become all attracted and be all shy when he decides he likes you, crazy.
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become friends with them for like a week then ask for a number. maybe that will work.
Naaaaw brom, dont friend em, always stay on the edge,,, that way youre unusual and she cant catorgorise youjackie_legs said:become friends with them for like a week then ask for a number. maybe that will work.
But Jakie, it will work for gettin a number, ill give you tht
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Master Don Juan
This is exactly what i've been doing without realizing, but the thing is, it feels impossible to get this girl. She is dead shy, actually afraid of guys and never had a bf. I have no idea what she thinks of me, alough she smiled a lot before, but still stares at me, but if I try to talk to her she acts shy and b!tc#y.Muphaser said:always stay on the edge,,, that way youre unusual and she cant catorgorise you
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Master Don Juan
^She likes games.......like the kind that confuses my head
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DrBeard was really shy till I told him it's okay to cup his balls whenever I spanked his bottom. :rockon:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.