BBX
Master Don Juan
Yea, something like this has proubly been posted before but anyway...is it me or are shy girls extremely hard to get and give mixed signals.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Shy girls
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This hasnt worked out for me yet(they never seem to want to go anywhere cept school) but you could ask her out on a "date" to the cafetria or something. They seem to warm up a bit if you send sms/IM but thats probably why it's not working for me lol.
BBX
Master Don Juan
so ****y and funny..even if its light is out of the question with an extremely shy girl?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I'd use light C&F. If you put it on too heavily they'll probably be scared off..shy girls suck. Heh.
The Real Ice Man
Don Juan
Yeah...but I'm curious how many of them are really sexual beasts waiting to be unleashed. I dunno. Maybe that kinda **** just happens in movies...
BBX
Master Don Juan
It turns out that the girl i'm talking about is too shy to even talk ta me through frekin aim. I mean give me a break, if your gonna smile and stare at a guy and make him become all attracted and be all shy when he decides he likes you, crazy.
jackie_legs
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become friends with them for like a week then ask for a number. maybe that will work.
Naaaaw brom, dont friend em, always stay on the edge,,, that way youre unusual and she cant catorgorise youjackie_legs said:become friends with them for like a week then ask for a number. maybe that will work.
But Jakie, it will work for gettin a number, ill give you tht
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BBX
Master Don Juan
This is exactly what i've been doing without realizing, but the thing is, it feels impossible to get this girl. She is dead shy, actually afraid of guys and never had a bf. I have no idea what she thinks of me, alough she smiled a lot before, but still stares at me, but if I try to talk to her she acts shy and b!tc#y.Muphaser said:always stay on the edge,,, that way youre unusual and she cant catorgorise you
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Master Don Juan
^She likes games.......like the kind that confuses my head
GayFrivolous69
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DrBeard was really shy till I told him it's okay to cup his balls whenever I spanked his bottom. :rockon:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.