BBX
Master Don Juan
Yea, something like this has proubly been posted before but anyway...is it me or are shy girls extremely hard to get and give mixed signals.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This hasnt worked out for me yet(they never seem to want to go anywhere cept school) but you could ask her out on a "date" to the cafetria or something. They seem to warm up a bit if you send sms/IM but thats probably why it's not working for me lol.
BBX
Master Don Juan
so ****y and funny..even if its light is out of the question with an extremely shy girl?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I'd use light C&F. If you put it on too heavily they'll probably be scared off..shy girls suck. Heh.
The Real Ice Man
Don Juan
Yeah...but I'm curious how many of them are really sexual beasts waiting to be unleashed. I dunno. Maybe that kinda **** just happens in movies...
BBX
Master Don Juan
It turns out that the girl i'm talking about is too shy to even talk ta me through frekin aim. I mean give me a break, if your gonna smile and stare at a guy and make him become all attracted and be all shy when he decides he likes you, crazy.
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become friends with them for like a week then ask for a number. maybe that will work.
Naaaaw brom, dont friend em, always stay on the edge,,, that way youre unusual and she cant catorgorise youjackie_legs said:become friends with them for like a week then ask for a number. maybe that will work.
But Jakie, it will work for gettin a number, ill give you tht
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BBX
Master Don Juan
This is exactly what i've been doing without realizing, but the thing is, it feels impossible to get this girl. She is dead shy, actually afraid of guys and never had a bf. I have no idea what she thinks of me, alough she smiled a lot before, but still stares at me, but if I try to talk to her she acts shy and b!tc#y.Muphaser said:always stay on the edge,,, that way youre unusual and she cant catorgorise you
BBX
Master Don Juan
^She likes games.......like the kind that confuses my head
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DrBeard was really shy till I told him it's okay to cup his balls whenever I spanked his bottom. :rockon:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.