"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Yea, something like this has proubly been posted before but anyway...is it me or are shy girls extremely hard to get and give mixed signals.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're right about that... and let me tell you why; It's because they're shy.
 

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Takes a while for them to warm up to you. Take it slow and try to converse when possible, eventually they'll be calm around you.
 

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This hasnt worked out for me yet(they never seem to want to go anywhere cept school) but you could ask her out on a "date" to the cafetria or something. They seem to warm up a bit if you send sms/IM but thats probably why it's not working for me lol.
 

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so ****y and funny..even if its light is out of the question with an extremely shy girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'd use light C&F. If you put it on too heavily they'll probably be scared off..shy girls suck. Heh.
 

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Yeah...but I'm curious how many of them are really sexual beasts waiting to be unleashed. I dunno. Maybe that kinda **** just happens in movies...
 

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It turns out that the girl i'm talking about is too shy to even talk ta me through frekin aim. I mean give me a break, if your gonna smile and stare at a guy and make him become all attracted and be all shy when he decides he likes you, crazy.
 

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become friends with them for like a week then ask for a number. maybe that will work.
 

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jackie_legs said:
become friends with them for like a week then ask for a number. maybe that will work.
Naaaaw brom, dont friend em, always stay on the edge,,, that way youre unusual and she cant catorgorise you

But Jakie, it will work for gettin a number, ill give you tht
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Muphaser said:
always stay on the edge,,, that way youre unusual and she cant catorgorise you
This is exactly what i've been doing without realizing, but the thing is, it feels impossible to get this girl. She is dead shy, actually afraid of guys and never had a bf. I have no idea what she thinks of me, alough she smiled a lot before, but still stares at me, but if I try to talk to her she acts shy and b!tc#y.
 

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Try to just make her feel safe and comfortable without being too "friend zone"ish
 

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Well you could try playing soem kind of game with her. Allways a good bonding tatic, Though unless you'r both into trading card game your options will be somewhat limited (either that or both of you have the same handheld).
 
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DrBeard was really shy till I told him it's okay to cup his balls whenever I spanked his bottom. :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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