Should you go on dates with women you're not attracted to?

[teddy]

If you're in a dry spell or need practice. Or is it better to just go on dates with women you're attracted to so that you become used to it?

 

[adam225]

Depends on whether or not you have nothing better to do. If you ain't then go for it.

 

[Albatross953]

I say don't dumpster dive. You always risk pregnancy, or STDs with sex. Don't risk it for a war pig.

But mostly I say don't dumpster dive, because you may start to think you should settle.

 

[backbreaker]

when i first started dating i wasn't attracted to probably the first 3 girls i went out with. you got to start somewhere. that's everyone ont his forum's problem you want to read a book and date hb 8's. you would not go to a war without going through real LIVE basic training. you don't play in the NFL without 4 games of preseason. but guys want to date dimes with no dating experience. the real world does not work like that

after a few girls like this i eventually got comfortable enough to handle hotter women.

 

[Don_Dom]

People here are unreal sometimes. There's a gulf of difference between dating a disease ridden skank and going out with someone you just aren't necessarily attracted to.

Don't lower your standards and wind up in a relationship, but if you need practice, go for it. Experience is the best teacher and knowing going in that you don't expect anything to happen beyond a drink or dinner or whatever will take loads of pressure off. Any practice you can get dealing with real women in real situations is good, imo. The more you deal with, the less pressure you will feel with the hot ones and the less you will pedistalize them. Your confidence can only improve and, depending on who it is and what you do together, you may even score some social value points with women you are attracted to.

And if you do wind up getting a little action from one, experience with that never hurts, either.

I say to for it. Can't hurt.

 

[Blinkers]

Set your boundaries and then allow yourself to hunt on the perimeter.
Set yourself a compromise, we can’t help with that but no one is judging except you anyway.
1) She is fit and healthy looking, albeit not the prettiest.
2) She has a face of an angel/body of an ox.

 

[VladPatton]

No, stay at home. Go out with chicks that get your kawk twitching. Chicks that make your blood rush. Otherwise, you're just gonna half-ass it and you're not gonna be into it.

 

[Albatross953]

There used to be a tip section thread that led over to adarkheart.com it talked about why when you are working on yourself lesser quality women are attracted and why you should stay away.

It really helped me, I wish I could find it.

 

[The Duke]

I'd recommend it if you need some experience.

 

[teddy]

I have an opportunity to go on a date with a girl a half foot taller and a hundred pounds heavier.

I think she used to have decent looks, but her face is now bordering on a 5 at best.

I'm obviously not excited at all, but just wondering if it would be worth it for the experience since I'm on a massive dry spell and hardly getting any dates to begin with.

Or if it's better to just do my own stuff and go with chicks that make me excited.

 

[thatfeel]

It sounds like you don't want to be seen with her. Just invite her back to your place if you can. You'd be surprised how easily it works on the meh-tier chicks.

 

[teddy]

It sounds like you don't want to be seen with her. Just invite her back to your place if you can. You'd be surprised how easily it works on the meh-tier chicks.

Yeah...I'm not sure if I want to be seen with her. You mean invite her over without going out anywhere?

 

[thatfeel]

Yeah...I'm not sure if I want to be seen with her. You mean invite her over without going out anywhere?

Precisely.

 

[JoeMarron]

It sounds like a waste of time to me. Anyone can spit a good game to chicks they aren't attracted to. You need to be able to perform when your nerves are active and that'll only happen with a chick you're attracted to.

You'd be surprised how easily it works on the meh-tier chicks.

Meatier/meh-tier. I see what you did there...lol

 

[pyros]

sorry, cant delete this.

 

[pyros]

There used to be a tip section thread that led over to adarkheart.com it talked about why when you are working on yourself lesser quality women are attracted and why you should stay away.

It really helped me, I wish I could find it.

you meant this?:
http://www.adarkheart.com/2012/11/13/leagues-exist/

 

[Maximus Rex]

The Remix Version of This Rather Asinine Question

If you're in a dry spell or need practice. Or is it better to just go on dates with women you're attracted to so that you become used to it?

Is it better to SPEND YOUR TIME AND MONEY, IN ADDITION TO GIVING YOUR ATTENTION TO A WOMEN YOU'RE NOT ATTRACTED TO if you're in a dry spell? Or is better to SPEND YOUR TIME AND MONEY, IN ADDITION TO GIVING YOUR ATTENTION TO WOMEN YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO so that you become used to it.

 

[Mr Wright]

It sounds like a waste of time to me. Anyone can spit a good game to chicks they aren't attracted to. You need to be able to perform when your nerves are active and that'll only happen with a chick you're attracted to.

Yeah but maybe if you're not spitting good game at the chicks you are into then you're doing something wrong. You cannot expect to just roll up to a girl you're interested in if you've barely hit on a girl your whole life, you will get shot down and your confidence will go down. Ideally, you dont want to have to date some girls you're not into but I reckon most of the guys who have gotten really good have had to go through that period of dating girls they would not touch today.

If you've had 0 experience you can't just jump into a manual car and start driving, you need lessons. It may be a bit embarrassing and hurt your pride but once you get through it you never need to do it again...or you can crash your way to perfection. When you're struggling you fall to the level of your training...apparently

 

[Albatross953]

you meant this?:
http://www.adarkheart.com/2012/11/13/leagues-exist/

No, but thanks for looking pyro.

 

[teddy]

Is it better to SPEND YOUR TIME AND MONEY, IN ADDITION TO GIVING YOUR ATTENTION TO A WOMEN YOU'RE NOT ATTRACTED TO if you're in a dry spell? Or is better to SPEND YOUR TIME AND MONEY, IN ADDITION TO GIVING YOUR ATTENTION TO WOMEN YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO so that you become used to it.

Well, for right now, I have an unattractive woman willing to go on a date with me.

I'm on a dry spell.

Do I do it anyway for the practice or should I pass it up and just keep working at it until I get a woman I'm attracted to out on a date, no matter how long it takes, so that I don't get used to lowering my standards.