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Should you ever tell a girl how many people youve slept with?

kingkong98

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Every girl i've ever dated ends up asking me this and wont drop the subject until I tell them. How can I get out of this?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Warrior74

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growing a backbone will help you with that. I've never had a girl ask me that before. If you don't want to respond, don't. Make a joke, ask her how many she's been and keep grilling her about it until she gets upset (really don't do that I'm kidding), or just ignore it...
 

katatonia

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No, deflect the question with bs if she asks you. Something like...

"I lost count after the 500th"
or
"What?! I'm a virgin"
 

FreD_BeaR

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katatonia said:
No, deflect the question with bs if she asks you. Something like...

"I lost count after the 500th"
or
"What?! I'm a virgin"

when I was seeing this HB8.5, I really was a virgin. So I couldnt use that one haha. After we had sex the first or second time, she asked me the question. I tried ignoring it, deflecting it, not giving her a straight answer. It was evident that she was not upset about it, and understandably so. I mean why wont this guy just tell me, it must be a big number. I mean i could have lied, but eventually I just told her 0 until 20 min ago or whatever. She didn't believe me, so I told her to believe whatever she wants. After that it was cool.

The "I lost count at 500" is a good one I think.
 

Smartone84

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I never give a straight answer because in all real honesty, its not a subject you should be talking about. I've used joke lines such as "i'm saving myself for marriage" or as said earlier "Oh i dont know, I lost count when I turned 20 I think". . . and before you even get into that you can say "ladies first", making her answer first

if she CONTINUES to get on you over and over (which is unlikely), then you can tell her the truth with a straight face and confident look, and then say "you're turn"
 

Night Owl

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I lost count how many times I have been asked that question... !
 

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sodbuster said:
Say 20 1/2. When she asks 1/2? tell her you aren't sure how to count the midget
OP, you need to use witticisms like this one.

Case closed.
 

Relations

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HB: So, uh, how many girls have you slept with?

You: Not enough. How many chicks have you slept with?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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