kingkong98
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Every girl i've ever dated ends up asking me this and wont drop the subject until I tell them. How can I get out of this?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Should you ever tell a girl how many people youve slept with?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
growing a backbone will help you with that. I've never had a girl ask me that before. If you don't want to respond, don't. Make a joke, ask her how many she's been and keep grilling her about it until she gets upset (really don't do that I'm kidding), or just ignore it...
katatonia said:
when I was seeing this HB8.5, I really was a virgin. So I couldnt use that one haha. After we had sex the first or second time, she asked me the question. I tried ignoring it, deflecting it, not giving her a straight answer. It was evident that she was not upset about it, and understandably so. I mean why wont this guy just tell me, it must be a big number. I mean i could have lied, but eventually I just told her 0 until 20 min ago or whatever. She didn't believe me, so I told her to believe whatever she wants. After that it was cool.
The "I lost count at 500" is a good one I think.
Smartone84
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I never give a straight answer because in all real honesty, its not a subject you should be talking about. I've used joke lines such as "i'm saving myself for marriage" or as said earlier "Oh i dont know, I lost count when I turned 20 I think". . . and before you even get into that you can say "ladies first", making her answer first
if she CONTINUES to get on you over and over (which is unlikely), then you can tell her the truth with a straight face and confident look, and then say "you're turn"
if she CONTINUES to get on you over and over (which is unlikely), then you can tell her the truth with a straight face and confident look, and then say "you're turn"
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
sodbuster
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Say 20 1/2. When she asks 1/2? tell her you aren't sure how to count the midget
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LOL!!!! That is really good. I am going to use that one.sodbuster said:
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OP, you need to use witticisms like this one.sodbuster said:
Case closed.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.