kingkong98
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Every girl i've ever dated ends up asking me this and wont drop the subject until I tell them. How can I get out of this?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should you ever tell a girl how many people youve slept with?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
growing a backbone will help you with that. I've never had a girl ask me that before. If you don't want to respond, don't. Make a joke, ask her how many she's been and keep grilling her about it until she gets upset (really don't do that I'm kidding), or just ignore it...
katatonia said:
when I was seeing this HB8.5, I really was a virgin. So I couldnt use that one haha. After we had sex the first or second time, she asked me the question. I tried ignoring it, deflecting it, not giving her a straight answer. It was evident that she was not upset about it, and understandably so. I mean why wont this guy just tell me, it must be a big number. I mean i could have lied, but eventually I just told her 0 until 20 min ago or whatever. She didn't believe me, so I told her to believe whatever she wants. After that it was cool.
The "I lost count at 500" is a good one I think.
Smartone84
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I never give a straight answer because in all real honesty, its not a subject you should be talking about. I've used joke lines such as "i'm saving myself for marriage" or as said earlier "Oh i dont know, I lost count when I turned 20 I think". . . and before you even get into that you can say "ladies first", making her answer first
if she CONTINUES to get on you over and over (which is unlikely), then you can tell her the truth with a straight face and confident look, and then say "you're turn"
if she CONTINUES to get on you over and over (which is unlikely), then you can tell her the truth with a straight face and confident look, and then say "you're turn"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sodbuster
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Say 20 1/2. When she asks 1/2? tell her you aren't sure how to count the midget
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LOL!!!! That is really good. I am going to use that one.sodbuster said:
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OP, you need to use witticisms like this one.sodbuster said:
Case closed.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.