kingkong98
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Every girl i've ever dated ends up asking me this and wont drop the subject until I tell them. How can I get out of this?
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Should you ever tell a girl how many people youve slept with?
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Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
growing a backbone will help you with that. I've never had a girl ask me that before. If you don't want to respond, don't. Make a joke, ask her how many she's been and keep grilling her about it until she gets upset (really don't do that I'm kidding), or just ignore it...
katatonia said:
when I was seeing this HB8.5, I really was a virgin. So I couldnt use that one haha. After we had sex the first or second time, she asked me the question. I tried ignoring it, deflecting it, not giving her a straight answer. It was evident that she was not upset about it, and understandably so. I mean why wont this guy just tell me, it must be a big number. I mean i could have lied, but eventually I just told her 0 until 20 min ago or whatever. She didn't believe me, so I told her to believe whatever she wants. After that it was cool.
The "I lost count at 500" is a good one I think.
Smartone84
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I never give a straight answer because in all real honesty, its not a subject you should be talking about. I've used joke lines such as "i'm saving myself for marriage" or as said earlier "Oh i dont know, I lost count when I turned 20 I think". . . and before you even get into that you can say "ladies first", making her answer first
if she CONTINUES to get on you over and over (which is unlikely), then you can tell her the truth with a straight face and confident look, and then say "you're turn"
if she CONTINUES to get on you over and over (which is unlikely), then you can tell her the truth with a straight face and confident look, and then say "you're turn"
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
sodbuster
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Say 20 1/2. When she asks 1/2? tell her you aren't sure how to count the midget
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LOL!!!! That is really good. I am going to use that one.sodbuster said:
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OP, you need to use witticisms like this one.sodbuster said:
Case closed.
