"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should we unban phm?

Bring back phm?

  • yes

    Votes: 15 68.2%
  • no

    Votes: 7 31.8%

  • Total voters
    22

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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More PHM **** riders. If he was unbanned he would not come back and post if he had self respect
 

GS750

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I agree. PHM wouldn't come back anyway even if he was un-banned. I think we should just move on.
 

_sideways_

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Why not give him the choice to decide to come back or not?

some enjoyed his posts...and we are supposed to be brothers right?

I don't read every single post from all the members....if u do then that's all on you. If phm upset u, why keep reading?

so vote yay or nay. We welcome super betas, but we don't allow aspiring DJs with their own set of weaknesses what ever we might think they are...thats weak sauce.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GS750

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_sideways_ said:
Why not give him the choice to decide to come back or not?

some enjoyed his posts...and we are supposed to be brothers right?

I don't read every single post from all the members....if u do then that's all on you. If phm upset u, why keep reading?

so vote yay or nay. We welcome super betas, but we don't allow aspiring DJs with their own set of weaknesses what ever we might think they are...thats weak sauce.
I see your point. I voted yes. I still don't think it will happen, but we'll see.
 

adam225

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Yep, his ban needs lifting. I miss those beta fag posts lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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_sideways_

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I won't call u gaylan....like others do. But why do u care so much jaylan?

is this site ur life? I got swimming pool laid last night...i don't need advice at the moment but phmS words were far more entertaining than yours.

vote no...simple....bashing a dude who isn't even reading ur words is pathetic.. .bashing anybody in real life or internet life is not "alpha".
 

skinnyguy

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_sideways_ said:
I won't call u gaylan....like others do. But why do u care so much jaylan?

is this site ur life? I got swimming pool laid last night...i don't need advice at the moment but phmS words were far more entertaining than yours.

vote no...simple....bashing a dude who isn't even reading ur words is pathetic.. .bashing anybody in real life or internet life is not "alpha".
By that logic, the mods should never ban anyone even if they use racial slurs or other offensive language. PHM used to bash people on this site all the time…I guess that would make him a huge beta faggot.
 

devilkingx2

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bring back phm, he was the hero sosuave deserved, but not the one it needed

I doubt they'd unban him though, I doubt he'd even know he was unbanned and I'd imagine he'd hate this place so much for banning him that he'd never come back, but low odds of success are never an excuse for not trying(unless trying has a high cost)
 
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