VikingKing
Banned
What do you guys think? Bring him back, yes or no?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Obviously I don't.Tictac said:Who is 'we'?
You own this place?
I see your point. I voted yes. I still don't think it will happen, but we'll see._sideways_ said:Why not give him the choice to decide to come back or not?
some enjoyed his posts...and we are supposed to be brothers right?
I don't read every single post from all the members....if u do then that's all on you. If phm upset u, why keep reading?
so vote yay or nay. We welcome super betas, but we don't allow aspiring DJs with their own set of weaknesses what ever we might think they are...thats weak sauce.
Get off of PHM's **** before you get pregnant. The dude's banned and gone.noobolgy said:What do you guys think? Bring him back, yes or no?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
By that logic, the mods should never ban anyone even if they use racial slurs or other offensive language. PHM used to bash people on this site all the time…I guess that would make him a huge beta faggot._sideways_ said:I won't call u gaylan....like others do. But why do u care so much jaylan?
is this site ur life? I got swimming pool laid last night...i don't need advice at the moment but phmS words were far more entertaining than yours.
vote no...simple....bashing a dude who isn't even reading ur words is pathetic.. .bashing anybody in real life or internet life is not "alpha".