VikingKing
Banned
What do you guys think? Bring him back, yes or no?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Obviously I don't.Tictac said:Who is 'we'?
You own this place?
I see your point. I voted yes. I still don't think it will happen, but we'll see._sideways_ said:Why not give him the choice to decide to come back or not?
some enjoyed his posts...and we are supposed to be brothers right?
I don't read every single post from all the members....if u do then that's all on you. If phm upset u, why keep reading?
so vote yay or nay. We welcome super betas, but we don't allow aspiring DJs with their own set of weaknesses what ever we might think they are...thats weak sauce.
Get off of PHM's **** before you get pregnant. The dude's banned and gone.noobolgy said:What do you guys think? Bring him back, yes or no?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
By that logic, the mods should never ban anyone even if they use racial slurs or other offensive language. PHM used to bash people on this site all the time…I guess that would make him a huge beta faggot._sideways_ said:I won't call u gaylan....like others do. But why do u care so much jaylan?
is this site ur life? I got swimming pool laid last night...i don't need advice at the moment but phmS words were far more entertaining than yours.
vote no...simple....bashing a dude who isn't even reading ur words is pathetic.. .bashing anybody in real life or internet life is not "alpha".