"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should we unban phm?

Bring back phm?

  • yes

    Votes: 15 68.2%
  • no

    Votes: 7 31.8%

  • Total voters
    22

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skinnyguy

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More PHM **** riders. If he was unbanned he would not come back and post if he had self respect
 

GS750

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I agree. PHM wouldn't come back anyway even if he was un-banned. I think we should just move on.
 

_sideways_

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Why not give him the choice to decide to come back or not?

some enjoyed his posts...and we are supposed to be brothers right?

I don't read every single post from all the members....if u do then that's all on you. If phm upset u, why keep reading?

so vote yay or nay. We welcome super betas, but we don't allow aspiring DJs with their own set of weaknesses what ever we might think they are...thats weak sauce.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GS750

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_sideways_ said:
Why not give him the choice to decide to come back or not?

some enjoyed his posts...and we are supposed to be brothers right?

I don't read every single post from all the members....if u do then that's all on you. If phm upset u, why keep reading?

so vote yay or nay. We welcome super betas, but we don't allow aspiring DJs with their own set of weaknesses what ever we might think they are...thats weak sauce.
I see your point. I voted yes. I still don't think it will happen, but we'll see.
 

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Yep, his ban needs lifting. I miss those beta fag posts lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I won't call u gaylan....like others do. But why do u care so much jaylan?

is this site ur life? I got swimming pool laid last night...i don't need advice at the moment but phmS words were far more entertaining than yours.

vote no...simple....bashing a dude who isn't even reading ur words is pathetic.. .bashing anybody in real life or internet life is not "alpha".
 

skinnyguy

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_sideways_ said:
I won't call u gaylan....like others do. But why do u care so much jaylan?

is this site ur life? I got swimming pool laid last night...i don't need advice at the moment but phmS words were far more entertaining than yours.

vote no...simple....bashing a dude who isn't even reading ur words is pathetic.. .bashing anybody in real life or internet life is not "alpha".
By that logic, the mods should never ban anyone even if they use racial slurs or other offensive language. PHM used to bash people on this site all the time…I guess that would make him a huge beta faggot.
 

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bring back phm, he was the hero sosuave deserved, but not the one it needed

I doubt they'd unban him though, I doubt he'd even know he was unbanned and I'd imagine he'd hate this place so much for banning him that he'd never come back, but low odds of success are never an excuse for not trying(unless trying has a high cost)
 
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