dustmuffin
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Should we feel sorry for this young woman who keeps getting burned by the c0ck carousel?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HoneyHitter
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Alright, so first you say:
And now you're saying:
And now you're saying:
Don't you see how you contradicted yourself? Those are all your own words.
MatureDJ
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TheMonkeyKing
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@sazc and @deesade need to get a room. The atmosphere is, shall we say, way tense.... 
That's it.... this bird is nothing more than an empty vessel. Really....? Making videos about toys?? My word. Good job she's got those toys; I wouldn't even be able to muster a sympathy boner for this one.
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sazc
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I totally see what you are saying. My only response is that it wasn't my intention to equate 'too easy' with being a slut. I don't believe that women can be labeled 'sluts'. There is always a deeper motivation behind that type of attention seeking behavior. A woman should never regret her behavior, if she does she's doing it wrong.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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No. Never feel sorry for any person if you have not wronged them. Guilt is a learned emotion that serves the purpose of only victims. The only people deserving of remorse are animals and those who you have unjustly hurt. Everyone else in this world can go **** themselves.