"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should we feel sorry for this young woman who keeps getting burned by the c0ck carousel?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HoneyHitter

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Alright, so first you say:

I have no sympathy for women who continue to spread their legs like velcro, hoping that this one will stick. Women who are too easy attract low quality men and end up exactly where she is, pumped and dumped and/or dating men who dont have any intentions.

And now you're saying:

I am not so incredibly simple, or shallow, that I would ever call any woman a slut, or 'too easy'.
Don't you see how you contradicted yourself? Those are all your own words.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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@sazc and @deesade need to get a room. The atmosphere is, shall we say, way tense.... :D

She's just trying to get more viewers and subscribers for her channel. Woman her age will relate to this and blah blah, she's just trying to get a larger audience as a vlogger. Yeah she's a talk slut. I wonder how much $$ she pulls in.

That's it.... this bird is nothing more than an empty vessel. Really....? Making videos about toys?? My word. Good job she's got those toys; I wouldn't even be able to muster a sympathy boner for this one.
 
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sazc

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Alright, so first you say:




And now you're saying:



Don't you see how you contradicted yourself? Those are all your own words.
I totally see what you are saying. My only response is that it wasn't my intention to equate 'too easy' with being a slut. I don't believe that women can be labeled 'sluts'. There is always a deeper motivation behind that type of attention seeking behavior. A woman should never regret her behavior, if she does she's doing it wrong.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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No. Never feel sorry for any person if you have not wronged them. Guilt is a learned emotion that serves the purpose of only victims. The only people deserving of remorse are animals and those who you have unjustly hurt. Everyone else in this world can go **** themselves.
 
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