dustmuffin
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Should we feel sorry for this young woman who keeps getting burned by the c0ck carousel?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HoneyHitter
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Alright, so first you say:
And now you're saying:
And now you're saying:
Don't you see how you contradicted yourself? Those are all your own words.
MatureDJ
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@sazc and @deesade need to get a room. The atmosphere is, shall we say, way tense.... 
That's it.... this bird is nothing more than an empty vessel. Really....? Making videos about toys?? My word. Good job she's got those toys; I wouldn't even be able to muster a sympathy boner for this one.
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sazc
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I totally see what you are saying. My only response is that it wasn't my intention to equate 'too easy' with being a slut. I don't believe that women can be labeled 'sluts'. There is always a deeper motivation behind that type of attention seeking behavior. A woman should never regret her behavior, if she does she's doing it wrong.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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No. Never feel sorry for any person if you have not wronged them. Guilt is a learned emotion that serves the purpose of only victims. The only people deserving of remorse are animals and those who you have unjustly hurt. Everyone else in this world can go **** themselves.