dustmuffin
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Should we feel sorry for this young woman who keeps getting burned by the c0ck carousel?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
HoneyHitter
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Alright, so first you say:
And now you're saying:
And now you're saying:
Don't you see how you contradicted yourself? Those are all your own words.
MatureDJ
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TheMonkeyKing
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@sazc and @deesade need to get a room. The atmosphere is, shall we say, way tense.... 
That's it.... this bird is nothing more than an empty vessel. Really....? Making videos about toys?? My word. Good job she's got those toys; I wouldn't even be able to muster a sympathy boner for this one.
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sazc
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I totally see what you are saying. My only response is that it wasn't my intention to equate 'too easy' with being a slut. I don't believe that women can be labeled 'sluts'. There is always a deeper motivation behind that type of attention seeking behavior. A woman should never regret her behavior, if she does she's doing it wrong.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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No. Never feel sorry for any person if you have not wronged them. Guilt is a learned emotion that serves the purpose of only victims. The only people deserving of remorse are animals and those who you have unjustly hurt. Everyone else in this world can go **** themselves.