dustmuffin
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Should we feel sorry for this young woman who keeps getting burned by the c0ck carousel?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HoneyHitter
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Alright, so first you say:
And now you're saying:
And now you're saying:
Don't you see how you contradicted yourself? Those are all your own words.
MatureDJ
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TheMonkeyKing
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@sazc and @deesade need to get a room. The atmosphere is, shall we say, way tense.... 
That's it.... this bird is nothing more than an empty vessel. Really....? Making videos about toys?? My word. Good job she's got those toys; I wouldn't even be able to muster a sympathy boner for this one.
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sazc
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I totally see what you are saying. My only response is that it wasn't my intention to equate 'too easy' with being a slut. I don't believe that women can be labeled 'sluts'. There is always a deeper motivation behind that type of attention seeking behavior. A woman should never regret her behavior, if she does she's doing it wrong.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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No. Never feel sorry for any person if you have not wronged them. Guilt is a learned emotion that serves the purpose of only victims. The only people deserving of remorse are animals and those who you have unjustly hurt. Everyone else in this world can go **** themselves.