"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should u ignore ex dater?

bob2007

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Girl went out with me a month only 3 dates, no kiss. I walked away. She got mad, sent nasty text.

I see her in our social , acquaintance group, people know, invite me to play vball. I ignore her, I never play on same game.

I'm over it, I understand she came from daddy problems.

Should I initiate contact / acknowledge her? Or just ignore.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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glass half full

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If there's anything there, she will let you know.

I wouldn't stress over it. Maybe she will give you second chance, maybe not. Too many other chicks out there to make a "not sure" any main priority.
Once bitten and unresolved, second time shy.
 

bob2007

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Mauser96 said:
You have to decide if YOU want to give HER a second chance.

Let's adopt more of THIS mindset

OP, to your question - do nothing. Treat her politely, the same as you would treat anyone else. SHE is the one who sent the nasty text. SHE is the one who has amends to make

I won't go out with this girl ever again.

I've been ignoring her for the most part.
I was just asking if I should say hi like I would most people.
But to be honest I don't even say hi to anyone in that vball group lol.
 

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IF you don't want to say Hi to anyone in that group, why the he11 are you in it? Never mind the GIRL, why are you hanging around people who aren't worth a "hello"?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bob2007

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It's a volleyball group.

I play vball.
 

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Dear Bob,
You don't say Hello to people in a Social Group?....Americans used to be such outgoing People...Crikey I even say G'day to Dogs I see tied up at my local shops...I would ask Sodbuster who would seem to come from A Rural Anglo derived community,is that how people in your town behave?
 
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