"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl went out with me a month only 3 dates, no kiss. I walked away. She got mad, sent nasty text.

I see her in our social , acquaintance group, people know, invite me to play vball. I ignore her, I never play on same game.

I'm over it, I understand she came from daddy problems.

Should I initiate contact / acknowledge her? Or just ignore.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If there's anything there, she will let you know.

I wouldn't stress over it. Maybe she will give you second chance, maybe not. Too many other chicks out there to make a "not sure" any main priority.
Once bitten and unresolved, second time shy.
 
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Mauser96 said:
You have to decide if YOU want to give HER a second chance.

Let's adopt more of THIS mindset

OP, to your question - do nothing. Treat her politely, the same as you would treat anyone else. SHE is the one who sent the nasty text. SHE is the one who has amends to make
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I won't go out with this girl ever again.

I've been ignoring her for the most part.
I was just asking if I should say hi like I would most people.
But to be honest I don't even say hi to anyone in that vball group lol.
 
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IF you don't want to say Hi to anyone in that group, why the he11 are you in it? Never mind the GIRL, why are you hanging around people who aren't worth a "hello"?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's a volleyball group.

I play vball.
 
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Dear Bob,
You don't say Hello to people in a Social Group?....Americans used to be such outgoing People...Crikey I even say G'day to Dogs I see tied up at my local shops...I would ask Sodbuster who would seem to come from A Rural Anglo derived community,is that how people in your town behave?
 
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