"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should u ignore ex dater?

bob2007

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Girl went out with me a month only 3 dates, no kiss. I walked away. She got mad, sent nasty text.

I see her in our social , acquaintance group, people know, invite me to play vball. I ignore her, I never play on same game.

I'm over it, I understand she came from daddy problems.

Should I initiate contact / acknowledge her? Or just ignore.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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glass half full

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If there's anything there, she will let you know.

I wouldn't stress over it. Maybe she will give you second chance, maybe not. Too many other chicks out there to make a "not sure" any main priority.
Once bitten and unresolved, second time shy.
 

bob2007

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Mauser96 said:
You have to decide if YOU want to give HER a second chance.

Let's adopt more of THIS mindset

OP, to your question - do nothing. Treat her politely, the same as you would treat anyone else. SHE is the one who sent the nasty text. SHE is the one who has amends to make

I won't go out with this girl ever again.

I've been ignoring her for the most part.
I was just asking if I should say hi like I would most people.
But to be honest I don't even say hi to anyone in that vball group lol.
 

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IF you don't want to say Hi to anyone in that group, why the he11 are you in it? Never mind the GIRL, why are you hanging around people who aren't worth a "hello"?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bob2007

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It's a volleyball group.

I play vball.
 

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Dear Bob,
You don't say Hello to people in a Social Group?....Americans used to be such outgoing People...Crikey I even say G'day to Dogs I see tied up at my local shops...I would ask Sodbuster who would seem to come from A Rural Anglo derived community,is that how people in your town behave?
 
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