"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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should i stop being picky

cablecow15

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i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Reichskanzler

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Originally posted by cablecow15
i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
I would go out with the 5 just to get some experience, but maybe that's just me. After all, you don't want to be inexperienced when you finally find that 7 or 8.
 

Damian

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I say, practice your game on the not-so-great ones, so you get social proof. After you have an army of women that you are comfortable with, it should be easy to sarge on the hot, smart ones.

-Damian
 

Haboob

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If you go out with anyone other girls will find you more attractive. Its how their mind works.
 

oakraiderz2

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Lowering you standards are one thing, being picky is another.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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