"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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should i stop being picky

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i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by cablecow15
i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
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I would go out with the 5 just to get some experience, but maybe that's just me. After all, you don't want to be inexperienced when you finally find that 7 or 8.
 
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I say, practice your game on the not-so-great ones, so you get social proof. After you have an army of women that you are comfortable with, it should be easy to sarge on the hot, smart ones.

-Damian
 
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If you go out with anyone other girls will find you more attractive. Its how their mind works.
 
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Lowering you standards are one thing, being picky is another.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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