"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should i stop being picky

cablecow15

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i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Reichskanzler

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Originally posted by cablecow15
i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
I would go out with the 5 just to get some experience, but maybe that's just me. After all, you don't want to be inexperienced when you finally find that 7 or 8.
 

Damian

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I say, practice your game on the not-so-great ones, so you get social proof. After you have an army of women that you are comfortable with, it should be easy to sarge on the hot, smart ones.

-Damian
 

Haboob

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If you go out with anyone other girls will find you more attractive. Its how their mind works.
 

oakraiderz2

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Lowering you standards are one thing, being picky is another.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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