"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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should i stop being picky

cablecow15

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i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Reichskanzler

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Originally posted by cablecow15
i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
I would go out with the 5 just to get some experience, but maybe that's just me. After all, you don't want to be inexperienced when you finally find that 7 or 8.
 

Damian

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I say, practice your game on the not-so-great ones, so you get social proof. After you have an army of women that you are comfortable with, it should be easy to sarge on the hot, smart ones.

-Damian
 

Haboob

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If you go out with anyone other girls will find you more attractive. Its how their mind works.
 

oakraiderz2

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Lowering you standards are one thing, being picky is another.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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