"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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should i stop being picky

cablecow15

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i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Reichskanzler

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Originally posted by cablecow15
i like only certin women. i dont go out with stupid girls
or really smart girls. i just want a girl thats not a dumb a$$!
and has a nice body but its rare to find both.
i dont need a jessica simpson body. just nice like
a 7 or 8 but i have not found any girls to my liking
theres this girl whos kinda a 5 and i know likes me
should i go out with her just to get started with a girl or
should i wait for the perfect catch

any comments would be appriciated
I would go out with the 5 just to get some experience, but maybe that's just me. After all, you don't want to be inexperienced when you finally find that 7 or 8.
 

Damian

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I say, practice your game on the not-so-great ones, so you get social proof. After you have an army of women that you are comfortable with, it should be easy to sarge on the hot, smart ones.

-Damian
 

Haboob

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If you go out with anyone other girls will find you more attractive. Its how their mind works.
 

oakraiderz2

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Lowering you standards are one thing, being picky is another.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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