"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I go to eastern european countries like Hungary?

steve2830

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Hi If I go to eastern european countries like Hungary or other countries nearby like Czech Republic can I get ascended there? I am a Incel TFL
Do girls in these countries like western european guys like portuguese spanish or italian?
I live in western europe would like to travel to try there if the girls of these countries will like me or want a date with me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poonani Maker

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No you'd better be Catholic or Orthodox, even then you're not them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Romanemp22

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You say you're virgin, it's easier to find girls in your country /town then to go to other part of the Europe in this restrictive times when traveling is not as easy as it was.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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@OP You're not missing much. I wouldn't worry about it.
It's just a wet hole.
*shrug*
 
MatureDJ

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Do you speak Hungarian? The best place to LocationMax in Eastern Europe is Russia or Ukraine. :cool:
 
Who Dares Win

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steve2830 said:
Hi If I go to eastern european countries like Hungary or other countries nearby like Czech Republic can I get ascended there? I am a Incel TFL
Do girls in these countries like western european guys like portuguese spanish or italian?
I live in western europe would like to travel to try there if the girls of these countries will like me or want a date with me.
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Nope too late, you should have gone there 20 years ago in your condition or 10 years ago as an average guy, nowadays it takes to be a chad there too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I never understand these kind of topics when they are posted here.

You are 19 years old. You aren't even closing to being a complete version of yourself. In the meantime, get yourself in as good a shape as you can and start practicing on hitting on women where you live. I can guarantee you that even if you strike out 99% of the time you will get a hit somewhere if you are confident in yourself. Use that first one as a practice to prepare yourself for the next one and talk to as many women as you can. Go in with ZERO expectations and do not get flustered. It is hard when you are first beginning with no experience. We all had to start somewhere.

And you can do it where you live -- you don't need to go to Hungary, South Africa, or Hong Kong. Good luck.
 
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steve2830 said:
I am a virgin True Forced loneliness I didint have a date in my life :cry:
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How many women have you approached?
How many women have you asked out?
How many OLD sites are you working and hoe many women have you messaged?

I have the feeling the answer is going to be close to zero and that doesn't make you an Incel that just makes you lazy.
 
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