"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I go to eastern european countries like Hungary?

steve2830

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Hi If I go to eastern european countries like Hungary or other countries nearby like Czech Republic can I get ascended there? I am a Incel TFL
Do girls in these countries like western european guys like portuguese spanish or italian?
I live in western europe would like to travel to try there if the girls of these countries will like me or want a date with me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Poonani Maker

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No you'd better be Catholic or Orthodox, even then you're not them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Romanemp22

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You say you're virgin, it's easier to find girls in your country /town then to go to other part of the Europe in this restrictive times when traveling is not as easy as it was.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lost_blackbird

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@OP You're not missing much. I wouldn't worry about it.
It's just a wet hole.
*shrug*
 

MatureDJ

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Do you speak Hungarian? The best place to LocationMax in Eastern Europe is Russia or Ukraine. :cool:
 

Who Dares Win

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Hi If I go to eastern european countries like Hungary or other countries nearby like Czech Republic can I get ascended there? I am a Incel TFL
Do girls in these countries like western european guys like portuguese spanish or italian?
I live in western europe would like to travel to try there if the girls of these countries will like me or want a date with me.
Nope too late, you should have gone there 20 years ago in your condition or 10 years ago as an average guy, nowadays it takes to be a chad there too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I never understand these kind of topics when they are posted here.

You are 19 years old. You aren't even closing to being a complete version of yourself. In the meantime, get yourself in as good a shape as you can and start practicing on hitting on women where you live. I can guarantee you that even if you strike out 99% of the time you will get a hit somewhere if you are confident in yourself. Use that first one as a practice to prepare yourself for the next one and talk to as many women as you can. Go in with ZERO expectations and do not get flustered. It is hard when you are first beginning with no experience. We all had to start somewhere.

And you can do it where you live -- you don't need to go to Hungary, South Africa, or Hong Kong. Good luck.
 

BackInTheGame78

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I am a virgin True Forced loneliness I didint have a date in my life :cry:
How many women have you approached?
How many women have you asked out?
How many OLD sites are you working and hoe many women have you messaged?

I have the feeling the answer is going to be close to zero and that doesn't make you an Incel that just makes you lazy.
 
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