"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I go to eastern european countries like Hungary?

steve2830

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Hi If I go to eastern european countries like Hungary or other countries nearby like Czech Republic can I get ascended there? I am a Incel TFL
Do girls in these countries like western european guys like portuguese spanish or italian?
I live in western europe would like to travel to try there if the girls of these countries will like me or want a date with me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No you'd better be Catholic or Orthodox, even then you're not them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Romanemp22

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You say you're virgin, it's easier to find girls in your country /town then to go to other part of the Europe in this restrictive times when traveling is not as easy as it was.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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@OP You're not missing much. I wouldn't worry about it.
It's just a wet hole.
*shrug*
 
MatureDJ

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Do you speak Hungarian? The best place to LocationMax in Eastern Europe is Russia or Ukraine. :cool:
 
Who Dares Win

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steve2830 said:
Hi If I go to eastern european countries like Hungary or other countries nearby like Czech Republic can I get ascended there? I am a Incel TFL
Do girls in these countries like western european guys like portuguese spanish or italian?
I live in western europe would like to travel to try there if the girls of these countries will like me or want a date with me.
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Nope too late, you should have gone there 20 years ago in your condition or 10 years ago as an average guy, nowadays it takes to be a chad there too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I never understand these kind of topics when they are posted here.

You are 19 years old. You aren't even closing to being a complete version of yourself. In the meantime, get yourself in as good a shape as you can and start practicing on hitting on women where you live. I can guarantee you that even if you strike out 99% of the time you will get a hit somewhere if you are confident in yourself. Use that first one as a practice to prepare yourself for the next one and talk to as many women as you can. Go in with ZERO expectations and do not get flustered. It is hard when you are first beginning with no experience. We all had to start somewhere.

And you can do it where you live -- you don't need to go to Hungary, South Africa, or Hong Kong. Good luck.
 
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steve2830 said:
I am a virgin True Forced loneliness I didint have a date in my life :cry:
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How many women have you approached?
How many women have you asked out?
How many OLD sites are you working and hoe many women have you messaged?

I have the feeling the answer is going to be close to zero and that doesn't make you an Incel that just makes you lazy.
 
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