There is this girl that like me..but she is like 278 pounds and 23 years old . She is nice to me and funny..very cool to hang out with but she like me alot. She has told me that she like me alot but should i date her?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
should i date this girl that like me?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
If I was in your shoes, for 278 pounds she better look pretty feminine.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Do you like her? Personally I wouldn't even date a woman who was over 200, let alone 278. That's just plain unhealthy, and I'm an athlete. I need a woman who can keep up with me.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
It's your call, just expect other guys to give you odd looks if she really isn't all that ...
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
If you're a chubby-chaser, then yeah, go for it. There will certainly be more than enough cushin' for the pushin'.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I can overanalyse and say that if you are indecisive about dating her you ought not to.
Or that by posting a 'should I', you are looking for either validation or an excuse to opt out.
And we're not giving you that option. Haha.
Or that by posting a 'should I', you are looking for either validation or an excuse to opt out.
And we're not giving you that option. Haha.
diablo
Master Don Juan
No offense, but are you really 25?
Also, what's the deal with you posting thread after thread after thread about fat girls?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67050
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66126
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66341
Also, from reading your past threads/replies, I'm wondering if you are incapable of making your own decisions?
However, I stand by my post in the first thread I've linked to (though change the weight to 273 as per your thread):
Also, what's the deal with you posting thread after thread after thread about fat girls?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67050
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66126
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66341
Also, from reading your past threads/replies, I'm wondering if you are incapable of making your own decisions?
However, I stand by my post in the first thread I've linked to (though change the weight to 273 as per your thread):
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
278lbs!!??? You gotta be ****ting me dude! Just imagine the sight of going doggy on her, man if she rides you, your **** will snap off.
diablo
Master Don Juan
You couldn't go doggy with her - unless you have a 2 foot penis. Otherwise it wouldn't make it even halfway there... As for her riding you, they invented a word for such a torture: suffocation.
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
lmao!
only date a fat chick if you are attracted to fat chicks... if not, then become a DJ.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Y'know, every once in a while I wonder if I was ever as bad as this. Luckily I'm too old and senile to remember.
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
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This has got to be a joke. 278 pounds is not just fat, it's morbidly obese.
Words of wisdom: fat chicks are like mopeds. They're fun to ride until your friends see you on one.
Words of wisdom: fat chicks are like mopeds. They're fun to ride until your friends see you on one.
xhikari
Don Juan
actually come to think of it...i think this guy's like attracted to big chicks.....lookin at those links up there...he seems to be more magnatized towards them "big" chicks...so well....why ruin what he likes.....give him a green light guys
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
lmfao
im seriously cracking up on this
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Perhaps it's because he likes larger women, yet he can't bring himself to go for it because of the social stigma that's involved.
I've heard that 10% of adults prefer fat partners, even though that's kind of hard to believe. But I think that it's like someone being gay and too scared to tell people or do anything that makes people think that of him, because of the fact that it's not socially acceptable.
He could be facing a similar problem that a gay man would have, except that it's not the gayness, it's his preference for large women.
My $.02,
Ben
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.