There is this girl that like me..but she is like 278 pounds and 23 years old . She is nice to me and funny..very cool to hang out with but she like me alot. She has told me that she like me alot but should i date her?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
should i date this girl that like me?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
If I was in your shoes, for 278 pounds she better look pretty feminine.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Do you like her? Personally I wouldn't even date a woman who was over 200, let alone 278. That's just plain unhealthy, and I'm an athlete. I need a woman who can keep up with me.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
It's your call, just expect other guys to give you odd looks if she really isn't all that ...
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
If you're a chubby-chaser, then yeah, go for it. There will certainly be more than enough cushin' for the pushin'.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I can overanalyse and say that if you are indecisive about dating her you ought not to.
Or that by posting a 'should I', you are looking for either validation or an excuse to opt out.
And we're not giving you that option. Haha.
Or that by posting a 'should I', you are looking for either validation or an excuse to opt out.
And we're not giving you that option. Haha.
diablo
Master Don Juan
No offense, but are you really 25?
Also, what's the deal with you posting thread after thread after thread about fat girls?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67050
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66126
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66341
Also, from reading your past threads/replies, I'm wondering if you are incapable of making your own decisions?
However, I stand by my post in the first thread I've linked to (though change the weight to 273 as per your thread):
Also, what's the deal with you posting thread after thread after thread about fat girls?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67050
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66126
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66341
Also, from reading your past threads/replies, I'm wondering if you are incapable of making your own decisions?
However, I stand by my post in the first thread I've linked to (though change the weight to 273 as per your thread):
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
278lbs!!??? You gotta be ****ting me dude! Just imagine the sight of going doggy on her, man if she rides you, your **** will snap off.
diablo
Master Don Juan
You couldn't go doggy with her - unless you have a 2 foot penis. Otherwise it wouldn't make it even halfway there... As for her riding you, they invented a word for such a torture: suffocation.
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
lmao!
only date a fat chick if you are attracted to fat chicks... if not, then become a DJ.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Y'know, every once in a while I wonder if I was ever as bad as this. Luckily I'm too old and senile to remember.
ShizamDaMan
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This has got to be a joke. 278 pounds is not just fat, it's morbidly obese.
Words of wisdom: fat chicks are like mopeds. They're fun to ride until your friends see you on one.
Words of wisdom: fat chicks are like mopeds. They're fun to ride until your friends see you on one.
xhikari
Don Juan
actually come to think of it...i think this guy's like attracted to big chicks.....lookin at those links up there...he seems to be more magnatized towards them "big" chicks...so well....why ruin what he likes.....give him a green light guys
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
lmfao
im seriously cracking up on this
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Perhaps it's because he likes larger women, yet he can't bring himself to go for it because of the social stigma that's involved.
I've heard that 10% of adults prefer fat partners, even though that's kind of hard to believe. But I think that it's like someone being gay and too scared to tell people or do anything that makes people think that of him, because of the fact that it's not socially acceptable.
He could be facing a similar problem that a gay man would have, except that it's not the gayness, it's his preference for large women.
My $.02,
Ben
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.