There is this girl that like me..but she is like 278 pounds and 23 years old . She is nice to me and funny..very cool to hang out with but she like me alot. She has told me that she like me alot but should i date her?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
should i date this girl that like me?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
If I was in your shoes, for 278 pounds she better look pretty feminine.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Do you like her? Personally I wouldn't even date a woman who was over 200, let alone 278. That's just plain unhealthy, and I'm an athlete. I need a woman who can keep up with me.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
It's your call, just expect other guys to give you odd looks if she really isn't all that ...
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
If you're a chubby-chaser, then yeah, go for it. There will certainly be more than enough cushin' for the pushin'.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I can overanalyse and say that if you are indecisive about dating her you ought not to.
Or that by posting a 'should I', you are looking for either validation or an excuse to opt out.
And we're not giving you that option. Haha.
Or that by posting a 'should I', you are looking for either validation or an excuse to opt out.
And we're not giving you that option. Haha.
diablo
Master Don Juan
No offense, but are you really 25?
Also, what's the deal with you posting thread after thread after thread about fat girls?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67050
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66126
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66341
Also, from reading your past threads/replies, I'm wondering if you are incapable of making your own decisions?
However, I stand by my post in the first thread I've linked to (though change the weight to 273 as per your thread):
Also, what's the deal with you posting thread after thread after thread about fat girls?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67050
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66126
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66341
Also, from reading your past threads/replies, I'm wondering if you are incapable of making your own decisions?
However, I stand by my post in the first thread I've linked to (though change the weight to 273 as per your thread):
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
278lbs!!??? You gotta be ****ting me dude! Just imagine the sight of going doggy on her, man if she rides you, your **** will snap off.
diablo
Master Don Juan
You couldn't go doggy with her - unless you have a 2 foot penis. Otherwise it wouldn't make it even halfway there... As for her riding you, they invented a word for such a torture: suffocation.
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
lmao!
only date a fat chick if you are attracted to fat chicks... if not, then become a DJ.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Y'know, every once in a while I wonder if I was ever as bad as this. Luckily I'm too old and senile to remember.
ShizamDaMan
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This has got to be a joke. 278 pounds is not just fat, it's morbidly obese.
Words of wisdom: fat chicks are like mopeds. They're fun to ride until your friends see you on one.
Words of wisdom: fat chicks are like mopeds. They're fun to ride until your friends see you on one.
xhikari
Don Juan
actually come to think of it...i think this guy's like attracted to big chicks.....lookin at those links up there...he seems to be more magnatized towards them "big" chicks...so well....why ruin what he likes.....give him a green light guys
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
lmfao
im seriously cracking up on this
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Perhaps it's because he likes larger women, yet he can't bring himself to go for it because of the social stigma that's involved.
I've heard that 10% of adults prefer fat partners, even though that's kind of hard to believe. But I think that it's like someone being gay and too scared to tell people or do anything that makes people think that of him, because of the fact that it's not socially acceptable.
He could be facing a similar problem that a gay man would have, except that it's not the gayness, it's his preference for large women.
My $.02,
Ben
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.