"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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should i date this girl that like me?

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Abbott
...I've heard that 10% of adults prefer fat partners, even though that's kind of hard to believe. ...
Typically people are more comfortable with others which have similar body types. However, more overweight people tend to gravitate to fit people than vice versa.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DeathDealer

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I weigh 160 pounds at 5' 10". The most I'll ever date is someone that weighs 15 more pounsd than me (that's 175 for the math handicapped) usually you can tell too. They also have to match heigh/weight porportions too. If they're 5'1" and weigh 150lbs... I'm staying away from that. But if they're 5'5" and weigh 160lbs that's cool (a girl that height should be 140lbs)

Since girls average height is 5'5" - 248lbs is friggin obese!!! of course they'll like you and stuff just cause of attention.
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
278 pounds is not fat.

278 pounds is "If I saw her swimming in a pool, I'd chuck a harpoon at her."
u must like killing them poor whales huh?
:p
 
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