There is this girl that like me..but she is like 278 pounds and 23 years old . She is nice to me and funny..very cool to hang out with but she like me alot. She has told me that she like me alot but should i date her?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
should i date this girl that like me?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
If I was in your shoes, for 278 pounds she better look pretty feminine.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Do you like her? Personally I wouldn't even date a woman who was over 200, let alone 278. That's just plain unhealthy, and I'm an athlete. I need a woman who can keep up with me.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
It's your call, just expect other guys to give you odd looks if she really isn't all that ...
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
If you're a chubby-chaser, then yeah, go for it. There will certainly be more than enough cushin' for the pushin'.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I can overanalyse and say that if you are indecisive about dating her you ought not to.
Or that by posting a 'should I', you are looking for either validation or an excuse to opt out.
And we're not giving you that option. Haha.
Or that by posting a 'should I', you are looking for either validation or an excuse to opt out.
And we're not giving you that option. Haha.
diablo
Master Don Juan
No offense, but are you really 25?
Also, what's the deal with you posting thread after thread after thread about fat girls?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67050
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66126
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66341
Also, from reading your past threads/replies, I'm wondering if you are incapable of making your own decisions?
However, I stand by my post in the first thread I've linked to (though change the weight to 273 as per your thread):
Also, what's the deal with you posting thread after thread after thread about fat girls?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67050
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66126
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66341
Also, from reading your past threads/replies, I'm wondering if you are incapable of making your own decisions?
However, I stand by my post in the first thread I've linked to (though change the weight to 273 as per your thread):
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
278lbs!!??? You gotta be ****ting me dude! Just imagine the sight of going doggy on her, man if she rides you, your **** will snap off.
diablo
Master Don Juan
You couldn't go doggy with her - unless you have a 2 foot penis. Otherwise it wouldn't make it even halfway there... As for her riding you, they invented a word for such a torture: suffocation.
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
lmao!
only date a fat chick if you are attracted to fat chicks... if not, then become a DJ.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Y'know, every once in a while I wonder if I was ever as bad as this. Luckily I'm too old and senile to remember.
ShizamDaMan
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This has got to be a joke. 278 pounds is not just fat, it's morbidly obese.
Words of wisdom: fat chicks are like mopeds. They're fun to ride until your friends see you on one.
Words of wisdom: fat chicks are like mopeds. They're fun to ride until your friends see you on one.
xhikari
Don Juan
actually come to think of it...i think this guy's like attracted to big chicks.....lookin at those links up there...he seems to be more magnatized towards them "big" chicks...so well....why ruin what he likes.....give him a green light guys
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
lmfao
im seriously cracking up on this
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Perhaps it's because he likes larger women, yet he can't bring himself to go for it because of the social stigma that's involved.
I've heard that 10% of adults prefer fat partners, even though that's kind of hard to believe. But I think that it's like someone being gay and too scared to tell people or do anything that makes people think that of him, because of the fact that it's not socially acceptable.
He could be facing a similar problem that a gay man would have, except that it's not the gayness, it's his preference for large women.
My $.02,
Ben
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.