My current girlfriend of 3 years have ended up at the same uni. The problem is the uni lifestyle and she is going out to clubs, getting drunk and partying several times a week with her flat and friends. She says she just does it to bond with her flat mates and that it’s just for fun. Should I be concerned? What should I do about this? I’m new to the red pill world
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Should I date a party girl?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Murk
Master Don Juan
No it's best to be single for parts of uni because that's the fun of it.
You also can't expect her to stop partying and be a boring cvnt for the most liberating part of her life.
In fact, she's probably getting a train run on her by Francis, Tyrese and Jermaine as I type this, and she loves it.
You also can't expect her to stop partying and be a boring cvnt for the most liberating part of her life.
In fact, she's probably getting a train run on her by Francis, Tyrese and Jermaine as I type this, and she loves it.
soulforge
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Dude I wouldn't even consider a relationship with this chick.. She is getting drunk, every other night, guaranteed she will be taking other DIKS.
Your at university, enjoy the single life.. Fuk lots of hoes, but do NOT get emotionally involved with girls who party hard.
You will REGRET it
Your at university, enjoy the single life.. Fuk lots of hoes, but do NOT get emotionally involved with girls who party hard.
You will REGRET it
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Your only concerns in college should be to get a degree that is going to be worth more later in life than what you are paying for it now and avoiding an STD that will change your life.
backseatjuan
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Oh do nothing in terms of her living her life. You do your own sh1t. As far as she is your girlfriend and sh1t, nah. Let's put it into a useful perspective, you don't want to be a beta provider for a girl that sleeps around, gives you a bad rep at your university. You're too young and too valuable to be settling down with this party girl. Open up your eyes, call it quits, be single and mingle. By the way, I do not mean break up with her, have a talk and sh1t, just hook up with other girls and fvck them. As far as your investment into this girl financially and emotionally, zero.
GrowingPains
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As someone who was in an LTR for 4 years with my high school sweet heart...
Break up. End it in an amicable way and maybe she'll enter your life later. Maybe not. Become the DJ you're meant to be. Mingle, understand yourself, take chances and grow. There's so many curious girls in college, which means lots for you to learn and lots of fun to have.
Break up. End it in an amicable way and maybe she'll enter your life later. Maybe not. Become the DJ you're meant to be. Mingle, understand yourself, take chances and grow. There's so many curious girls in college, which means lots for you to learn and lots of fun to have.
