My current girlfriend of 3 years have ended up at the same uni. The problem is the uni lifestyle and she is going out to clubs, getting drunk and partying several times a week with her flat and friends. She says she just does it to bond with her flat mates and that it’s just for fun. Should I be concerned? What should I do about this? I’m new to the red pill world
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should I date a party girl?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Murk
Master Don Juan
No it's best to be single for parts of uni because that's the fun of it.
You also can't expect her to stop partying and be a boring cvnt for the most liberating part of her life.
In fact, she's probably getting a train run on her by Francis, Tyrese and Jermaine as I type this, and she loves it.
You also can't expect her to stop partying and be a boring cvnt for the most liberating part of her life.
In fact, she's probably getting a train run on her by Francis, Tyrese and Jermaine as I type this, and she loves it.
soulforge
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Dude I wouldn't even consider a relationship with this chick.. She is getting drunk, every other night, guaranteed she will be taking other DIKS.
Your at university, enjoy the single life.. Fuk lots of hoes, but do NOT get emotionally involved with girls who party hard.
You will REGRET it
Your at university, enjoy the single life.. Fuk lots of hoes, but do NOT get emotionally involved with girls who party hard.
You will REGRET it
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Your only concerns in college should be to get a degree that is going to be worth more later in life than what you are paying for it now and avoiding an STD that will change your life.
backseatjuan
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Oh do nothing in terms of her living her life. You do your own sh1t. As far as she is your girlfriend and sh1t, nah. Let's put it into a useful perspective, you don't want to be a beta provider for a girl that sleeps around, gives you a bad rep at your university. You're too young and too valuable to be settling down with this party girl. Open up your eyes, call it quits, be single and mingle. By the way, I do not mean break up with her, have a talk and sh1t, just hook up with other girls and fvck them. As far as your investment into this girl financially and emotionally, zero.
GrowingPains
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As someone who was in an LTR for 4 years with my high school sweet heart...
Break up. End it in an amicable way and maybe she'll enter your life later. Maybe not. Become the DJ you're meant to be. Mingle, understand yourself, take chances and grow. There's so many curious girls in college, which means lots for you to learn and lots of fun to have.
Break up. End it in an amicable way and maybe she'll enter your life later. Maybe not. Become the DJ you're meant to be. Mingle, understand yourself, take chances and grow. There's so many curious girls in college, which means lots for you to learn and lots of fun to have.
