You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Just relax, we can fix this. You take a stick of butter (8 tbsp worth) , 4 eggs, 1 and a half tablespoons of sugar (real sugar or pure glucose), 1 teaspoon of salt and one cup of flour and one cup of water.SupaPowa said:What should I do?!?!
win :crackup:Alle_Gory said:Just relax, we can fix this. You take a stick of butter (8 tbsp worth) , 4 eggs, 1 and a half tablespoons of sugar (real sugar or pure glucose), 1 teaspoon of salt and one cup of flour and one cup of water.
Now you take a small pan and boil the water, sugar, salt and butter for a moment. Now take it off the heat and dump in the flour. Mix vigorously until it's smooth. Now put it back on the heat and keep mixing until some of that moisture disappears. Take off the heat.
Now it's time to add the eggs, one at a time. Slowly mix until the mixture is frothy. Make sure you're using a whisk, forgot to tell you. The mixture should be soft enough to fall through the whisk. Like a very thick cream that holds it's shape well. If not, you can put it back on the heat and remove some of that moisture. Keep mixing, you don't want to cook it. Now take it and put in the freezer for it to cool down. Don't let it freeze.
Take some parchment paper and a pastry bag. Put the mixture in the pastry bag and use a star shaped nozzle if you have one and squeeze out some nice thick rings. No larger than 2". They should hold their shape.
Put them in the freezer to firm everything up. They will not freeze to the parchment paper, it's non-stick.
Now take half a gallon (2 Litres) of fresh oil and bring it to heat in a nice wide deep pan. Oil level should be at least 1" deep. Medium heat. Place the rings in and fry them. They should inflate because of the moisture inside leaving the insides nice and fluffy. Fry until golden brown and put aside to cool.
Congratulations, you have made a dozen fresh donuts using real ingredients. Icing sugar is recommended. You can make your own, take regular sugar and blend on high until it pulverizes.
Seriously though, it's a good recipe.macagent said:win :crackup:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
oh, i'm totally trying it :-DAlle_Gory said:Seriously though, it's a good recipe.
In that case you might want to reduce the butter. Recipe says 8 tbsp (1 stick) but it's too much IMO. 6 tbsp should be enough.macagent said:oh, i'm totally trying it :-D
Women hate me like a plague.....And I can't cook, so the donut recipe isn't really noted. FML.Aaron B said:set sail for fail
why haven't you dated in the past?
That was a joke. I have no idea what you're looking for. You've got to be a little more open about what's going on if you want advice from people.SupaPowa said:Women hate me like a plague.....And I can't cook, so the donut recipe isn't really noted. FML.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.