"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I bother?....I'm bad at this.

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HEEEELLLP! I'm hopelessly in love with this waitress where I work. We seem to be getting along rather well. But I've never dated before and I'm 25! I can't tell if she's giving me *signs* and even if she is...I wouldn't know how to respond.What should I do?!?!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SupaPowa said:
What should I do?!?!
Just relax, we can fix this. You take a stick of butter (8 tbsp worth) , 4 eggs, 1 and a half tablespoons of sugar (real sugar or pure glucose), 1 teaspoon of salt and one cup of flour and one cup of water.

Now you take a small pan and boil the water, sugar, salt and butter for a moment. Now take it off the heat and dump in the flour. Mix vigorously until it's smooth. Now put it back on the heat and keep mixing until some of that moisture disappears. Take off the heat.

Now it's time to add the eggs, one at a time. Slowly mix until the mixture is frothy. Make sure you're using a whisk, forgot to tell you. The mixture should be soft enough to fall through the whisk. Like a very thick cream that holds it's shape well. If not, you can put it back on the heat and remove some of that moisture. Keep mixing, you don't want to cook it. Now take it and put in the freezer for it to cool down. Don't let it freeze.

Take some parchment paper and a pastry bag. Put the mixture in the pastry bag and use a star shaped nozzle if you have one and squeeze out some nice thick rings. No larger than 2". They should hold their shape.

Put them in the freezer to firm everything up. They will not freeze to the parchment paper, it's non-stick.

Now take half a gallon (2 Litres) of fresh oil and bring it to heat in a nice wide deep pan. Oil level should be at least 1" deep. Medium heat. Place the rings in and fry them. They should inflate because of the moisture inside leaving the insides nice and fluffy. Fry until golden brown and put aside to cool.

Congratulations, you have made a dozen fresh donuts using real ingredients. Icing sugar is recommended. You can make your own, take regular sugar and blend on high until it pulverizes.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Just relax, we can fix this. You take a stick of butter (8 tbsp worth) , 4 eggs, 1 and a half tablespoons of sugar (real sugar or pure glucose), 1 teaspoon of salt and one cup of flour and one cup of water.

Now you take a small pan and boil the water, sugar, salt and butter for a moment. Now take it off the heat and dump in the flour. Mix vigorously until it's smooth. Now put it back on the heat and keep mixing until some of that moisture disappears. Take off the heat.

Now it's time to add the eggs, one at a time. Slowly mix until the mixture is frothy. Make sure you're using a whisk, forgot to tell you. The mixture should be soft enough to fall through the whisk. Like a very thick cream that holds it's shape well. If not, you can put it back on the heat and remove some of that moisture. Keep mixing, you don't want to cook it. Now take it and put in the freezer for it to cool down. Don't let it freeze.

Take some parchment paper and a pastry bag. Put the mixture in the pastry bag and use a star shaped nozzle if you have one and squeeze out some nice thick rings. No larger than 2". They should hold their shape.

Put them in the freezer to firm everything up. They will not freeze to the parchment paper, it's non-stick.

Now take half a gallon (2 Litres) of fresh oil and bring it to heat in a nice wide deep pan. Oil level should be at least 1" deep. Medium heat. Place the rings in and fry them. They should inflate because of the moisture inside leaving the insides nice and fluffy. Fry until golden brown and put aside to cool.

Congratulations, you have made a dozen fresh donuts using real ingredients. Icing sugar is recommended. You can make your own, take regular sugar and blend on high until it pulverizes.
win :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alle_Gory said:
Seriously though, it's a good recipe.
oh, i'm totally trying it :-D

OP, if this isn't a troll, try reading some of the info contained on this site. I'm sure you will find answers to the many questions you are asking.

Tip - it's not about women, it's about you.
 

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macagent said:
oh, i'm totally trying it :-D
In that case you might want to reduce the butter. Recipe says 8 tbsp (1 stick) but it's too much IMO. 6 tbsp should be enough.
 

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Aaron B said:
set sail for fail

why haven't you dated in the past?
Women hate me like a plague.....And I can't cook, so the donut recipe isn't really noted. FML.
 

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Women hate me like a plague.....And I can't cook, so the donut recipe isn't really noted. FML.
That was a joke. I have no idea what you're looking for. You've got to be a little more open about what's going on if you want advice from people.

So you haven't dated before. How close have you come and what do you think prevented you from dating a woman? Also, how is your social life? Friends, do you have close friends? Tell me something about them.
 

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Ummm...ok, here's the jist of it.

I've never got into dating because I only recently (since 2009) recovered from chronic depression. Now I'm good though...I can honestly say I'm a happy (...enough) guy just trying to get by. Also, because I don't usually go out much.

1. I don't know where to go where I would run into girls.

2. I refuse to spend time in bars and clubs...especially in this town, we are SWARMING with crack addicts.

3. Like 90% of the girls I meet are mindless snobtastic drones...Not all! Must most.

As for my social life. I don't really have one. I have only 2 friends so far and they don't really hang out with me much because they've known me for a long time.
Meaning they knew me when I was severely depressed. And back then I was impossible to tolerate. I also have only 2 friends because we "shun" the drone-minded and there's never really much to gain from spending time with people like that.

Also, I was kidding myself about the donut recipe....exept for the part where I can't cook...I can't cook worth s!?t.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NVM...She's taken....

Now excuse me while I go eat a tub of ice cream and cry myself asleep like a little b***h....FMLATH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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doesnt matter...you werent going to get her anyway.

go read the Dj bible, then read it again, because you need to work on YOURSELF before you start working on any girls.

that being said...You can do it! really anyone can, no matter how bad theyve done in the past. good luck!
 
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