You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just relax, we can fix this. You take a stick of butter (8 tbsp worth) , 4 eggs, 1 and a half tablespoons of sugar (real sugar or pure glucose), 1 teaspoon of salt and one cup of flour and one cup of water.SupaPowa said:What should I do?!?!
win :crackup:Alle_Gory said:Just relax, we can fix this. You take a stick of butter (8 tbsp worth) , 4 eggs, 1 and a half tablespoons of sugar (real sugar or pure glucose), 1 teaspoon of salt and one cup of flour and one cup of water.
Now you take a small pan and boil the water, sugar, salt and butter for a moment. Now take it off the heat and dump in the flour. Mix vigorously until it's smooth. Now put it back on the heat and keep mixing until some of that moisture disappears. Take off the heat.
Now it's time to add the eggs, one at a time. Slowly mix until the mixture is frothy. Make sure you're using a whisk, forgot to tell you. The mixture should be soft enough to fall through the whisk. Like a very thick cream that holds it's shape well. If not, you can put it back on the heat and remove some of that moisture. Keep mixing, you don't want to cook it. Now take it and put in the freezer for it to cool down. Don't let it freeze.
Take some parchment paper and a pastry bag. Put the mixture in the pastry bag and use a star shaped nozzle if you have one and squeeze out some nice thick rings. No larger than 2". They should hold their shape.
Put them in the freezer to firm everything up. They will not freeze to the parchment paper, it's non-stick.
Now take half a gallon (2 Litres) of fresh oil and bring it to heat in a nice wide deep pan. Oil level should be at least 1" deep. Medium heat. Place the rings in and fry them. They should inflate because of the moisture inside leaving the insides nice and fluffy. Fry until golden brown and put aside to cool.
Congratulations, you have made a dozen fresh donuts using real ingredients. Icing sugar is recommended. You can make your own, take regular sugar and blend on high until it pulverizes.
Seriously though, it's a good recipe.macagent said:win :crackup:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oh, i'm totally trying it :-DAlle_Gory said:Seriously though, it's a good recipe.
In that case you might want to reduce the butter. Recipe says 8 tbsp (1 stick) but it's too much IMO. 6 tbsp should be enough.macagent said:oh, i'm totally trying it :-D
Women hate me like a plague.....And I can't cook, so the donut recipe isn't really noted. FML.Aaron B said:set sail for fail
why haven't you dated in the past?
That was a joke. I have no idea what you're looking for. You've got to be a little more open about what's going on if you want advice from people.SupaPowa said:Women hate me like a plague.....And I can't cook, so the donut recipe isn't really noted. FML.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.