Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I be pissed with my girl? How or should i express it?

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I went away for about 3 or 4 nights. I expect her, as usually to either message me via cell phone or text message. However, her cell phone was messed up and I couldnt contact her if i wanted. She didn't contact me once and i got back like 5 hours ago. She knew i was getting back and i was online and so was she. She put a away message on and she HAD to see me online and home and she didn't call.

Am i overthinking this? I still HAVEN'T spoken to her. I'm no AFC, but not a total DJ. Things were going fine before, whats up? How do i express my disapproval of this b.s.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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do i go along the lines of just asking...like what the ****? Or do i just act curious and try and make it seem like I don't really care and i'm rather just curious?
 
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i spoke to her, she called. She kinda said jokingly "nice of you to call me" and i said me? How was i supposed to call you..you should've called me and she just laughped. I said no seriously..you should've called and she was like "you were on vacation why would you wanna hear or talk to me". What does this mean? How do i respond? Err...

need help!
 
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Reading too much into it. Doesn't seem to be any problem here at all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's testing you.....

Stop being so clingy... it's no big deal. So she didn't call. You could have messaged her and said something like,

"hey babe.. i know your phone's not workin' so just letting you know I'm home. call me later, I gotta unpack. I missed ya :) "


Or something like that.


you get the picture....
 
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Originally posted by shark
i spoke to her, she called. She kinda said jokingly "nice of you to call me" and i said me? How was i supposed to call you..you should've called me and she just laughped. I said no seriously..you should've called and she was like "you were on vacation why would you wanna hear or talk to me". What does this mean? How do i respond? Err...

need help!
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Ugh. Just drop it. You messed this up bad enough already.
 
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