"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should I be pissed with my girl? How or should i express it?

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I went away for about 3 or 4 nights. I expect her, as usually to either message me via cell phone or text message. However, her cell phone was messed up and I couldnt contact her if i wanted. She didn't contact me once and i got back like 5 hours ago. She knew i was getting back and i was online and so was she. She put a away message on and she HAD to see me online and home and she didn't call.

Am i overthinking this? I still HAVEN'T spoken to her. I'm no AFC, but not a total DJ. Things were going fine before, whats up? How do i express my disapproval of this b.s.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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shark

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do i go along the lines of just asking...like what the ****? Or do i just act curious and try and make it seem like I don't really care and i'm rather just curious?
 
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i spoke to her, she called. She kinda said jokingly "nice of you to call me" and i said me? How was i supposed to call you..you should've called me and she just laughped. I said no seriously..you should've called and she was like "you were on vacation why would you wanna hear or talk to me". What does this mean? How do i respond? Err...

need help!
 
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Reading too much into it. Doesn't seem to be any problem here at all.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She's testing you.....

Stop being so clingy... it's no big deal. So she didn't call. You could have messaged her and said something like,

"hey babe.. i know your phone's not workin' so just letting you know I'm home. call me later, I gotta unpack. I missed ya :) "


Or something like that.


you get the picture....
 
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Originally posted by shark
i spoke to her, she called. She kinda said jokingly "nice of you to call me" and i said me? How was i supposed to call you..you should've called me and she just laughped. I said no seriously..you should've called and she was like "you were on vacation why would you wanna hear or talk to me". What does this mean? How do i respond? Err...

need help!
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Ugh. Just drop it. You messed this up bad enough already.
 
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