What do you think I should do if I know this girl who is always saying stuff like, "I have a serious question..." and then when I ask what it is she says, "Umm.. never mind... maybe later" Also saying stuff like "I don't know and you don't know and I..." and she doesn't continue when I ask her. She wants to tell me something but I think she is afraid or something. How do I get it out of her without being too pushy?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She's afraid to tell me something...
- Thread starter stickboy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You make a move if you want to date her. Plain and simple. Isolate her, and then pull some moves...kino to kiss. You'll push her ass off the fence so fast, there'll be no grass to catch her. You'll find out very quickly whether she's interested or not, and you can stop wasting your time over-analyzing this. 
Listen, either your in or your out, so why not find out?
Listen, either your in or your out, so why not find out?
cave dweller
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bad........
stickboy,
She has done some 'bad shvt' in her past. (and you are not going to like what you hear).
(maybe she took on 4 at one time)
I am telling you that you don't want to hear it.......
cave dweller
stickboy,
She has done some 'bad shvt' in her past. (and you are not going to like what you hear).
(maybe she took on 4 at one time)
I am telling you that you don't want to hear it.......
cave dweller
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Well, then you need to make it obvious. If you already go out together if you're good friends, then you just have to start getting physical with her. Read up on Kino in the bible, and apply that when you two are alone. She'll tell you if she's not interested (though she probably won't use her mouth for this).
I'm fairly sure that most guys here will tell you that, it doesn't matter the circumstances if you want to have a chance with a girl, you have to make a deliberate, obvious "move" on her.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
When girls that I'm dating start pulling "sneaky" crap like this and act all sly/child like, I immediately start turning my head at the next available girl I can date.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.