What do you think I should do if I know this girl who is always saying stuff like, "I have a serious question..." and then when I ask what it is she says, "Umm.. never mind... maybe later" Also saying stuff like "I don't know and you don't know and I..." and she doesn't continue when I ask her. She wants to tell me something but I think she is afraid or something. How do I get it out of her without being too pushy?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She's afraid to tell me something...
- Thread starter stickboy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You make a move if you want to date her. Plain and simple. Isolate her, and then pull some moves...kino to kiss. You'll push her ass off the fence so fast, there'll be no grass to catch her. You'll find out very quickly whether she's interested or not, and you can stop wasting your time over-analyzing this. 
Listen, either your in or your out, so why not find out?
Listen, either your in or your out, so why not find out?
cave dweller
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bad........
stickboy,
She has done some 'bad shvt' in her past. (and you are not going to like what you hear).
(maybe she took on 4 at one time)
I am telling you that you don't want to hear it.......
cave dweller
stickboy,
She has done some 'bad shvt' in her past. (and you are not going to like what you hear).
(maybe she took on 4 at one time)
I am telling you that you don't want to hear it.......
cave dweller
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well, then you need to make it obvious. If you already go out together if you're good friends, then you just have to start getting physical with her. Read up on Kino in the bible, and apply that when you two are alone. She'll tell you if she's not interested (though she probably won't use her mouth for this).
I'm fairly sure that most guys here will tell you that, it doesn't matter the circumstances if you want to have a chance with a girl, you have to make a deliberate, obvious "move" on her.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
When girls that I'm dating start pulling "sneaky" crap like this and act all sly/child like, I immediately start turning my head at the next available girl I can date.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.