What do you think I should do if I know this girl who is always saying stuff like, "I have a serious question..." and then when I ask what it is she says, "Umm.. never mind... maybe later" Also saying stuff like "I don't know and you don't know and I..." and she doesn't continue when I ask her. She wants to tell me something but I think she is afraid or something. How do I get it out of her without being too pushy?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She's afraid to tell me something...
- Thread starter stickboy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You make a move if you want to date her. Plain and simple. Isolate her, and then pull some moves...kino to kiss. You'll push her ass off the fence so fast, there'll be no grass to catch her. You'll find out very quickly whether she's interested or not, and you can stop wasting your time over-analyzing this. 
Listen, either your in or your out, so why not find out?
Listen, either your in or your out, so why not find out?
cave dweller
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bad........
stickboy,
She has done some 'bad shvt' in her past. (and you are not going to like what you hear).
(maybe she took on 4 at one time)
I am telling you that you don't want to hear it.......
cave dweller
stickboy,
She has done some 'bad shvt' in her past. (and you are not going to like what you hear).
(maybe she took on 4 at one time)
I am telling you that you don't want to hear it.......
cave dweller
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well, then you need to make it obvious. If you already go out together if you're good friends, then you just have to start getting physical with her. Read up on Kino in the bible, and apply that when you two are alone. She'll tell you if she's not interested (though she probably won't use her mouth for this).
I'm fairly sure that most guys here will tell you that, it doesn't matter the circumstances if you want to have a chance with a girl, you have to make a deliberate, obvious "move" on her.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
When girls that I'm dating start pulling "sneaky" crap like this and act all sly/child like, I immediately start turning my head at the next available girl I can date.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.