"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A female I had a thing with about two years ago put a status up and I replied to her in a private message. The first thing she says is, "I was just thinking of you this morning, how crazy!"

She is in college 4 hours away, so we both agreed to just do our own thing and ended up losing touch for a while. Then, when I contacted her, that's the first thing she says. (It's kind of funny, cause I was thinking about her and the good times we had in bed lol)

But, could this possibly mean she is still interested?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Milfhunter95 said:
A female I had a thing with about two years ago put a status up and I replied to her in a private message. The first thing she says is, "I was just thinking of you this morning, how crazy!"

She is in college 4 hours away, so we both agreed to just do our own thing and ended up losing touch for a while. Then, when I contacted her, that's the first thing she says. (It's kind of funny, cause I was thinking about her and the good times we had in bed lol)

But, could this possibly mean she is still interested?
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Set up a date, escalate, bang her somewhere, go on with your life and maybe there'll be more bangs coming out of her.
 
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Milfhunter95 said:
A female I had a thing with about two years ago put a status up and I replied to her in a private message. The first thing she says is, "I was just thinking of you this morning, how crazy!"

She is in college 4 hours away, so we both agreed to just do our own thing and ended up losing touch for a while. Then, when I contacted her, that's the first thing she says. (It's kind of funny, cause I was thinking about her and the good times we had in bed lol)

But, could this possibly mean she is still interested?
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sounds like one of you should be going on a road trip soon
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i tried to set up a weekend but she works on weekends (and from what she posts on Snapchat, I know she's not lying)

I work full time on weekdays, so idk how I can do this. I might go on a trip out of state next month and pass by her school, so maybe I'll just stop by then, **** her and get back on the road

Any other suggestions?
 
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Yeah, tell her that you MIGHT be in the area on such and such day and tell her to reach out if she is free.

Nothing but crickets after that if she doesnt respond positively.
 
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