"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She wants pictures of me naked.

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Okay, wtf. This girl I've been seeing for a while, and banging for a shorter while now, asked that I take a few pictures of myself naked and email 'em through.

WTF?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DrBeard said:
Dont do it dude! She cud set u up!

My mate got with this girl + she took pics of him in shower + said he cud be a model but then the next week she said he is a wanker + she uploaded his pics to a gay porno site!!
Or she could show all your mates and hers or whatever....lol
 

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Depends how much you trust her. Personally I'd say don't do it, but it's really up to you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ha! She's gonna put you in her "Book of Trophies" collection...


She's a showoff. :up:
 

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So she's starting an album? You guys know when you're a girls first... and I was hers. Seriously, girls don't masterbate to pics/videos like us, do they? Especially nothing like this. Lol
 

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Keeper said:
So she's starting an album? You guys know when you're a girls first... and I was hers. Seriously, girls don't masterbate to pics/videos like us, do they? Especially nothing like this. Lol
I don't think I made myself clear. Let me try again.

Blackmail!
 

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Ok ok, I get it, thederek. I just want a few more oppinons before I make some kind of decision.
 

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i cant believe no one has suggested getting pics of her too. what do you guys think camera phones were made for?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont do it dude. They are gonna photoshop your body on gay porn and send the picture to your parents.
 

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Tell her you'll come over with the camera and "we can take some shots of us together naked" - you'll figure out what is happening pretty fast.
 

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flexion_ said:
Tell her you'll come over with the camera and "we can take some shots of us together naked" - you'll figure out what is happening pretty fast.

great suggestion in my book! plus if its YOUR camera then u control the photos after the session.
 

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Establish what her intentions are first, be inquisitive and such as to her motives.

Or just don't do it, much safer.
 

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I agree with Flexion..

Another option is to get pictures of her first, that way you have some protection if she miss uses your pics..

also somthing cool to beat off over
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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El' Waynos said:
I agree with Flexion..

Another option is to get pictures of her first, that way you have some protection if she miss uses your pics..

also somthing cool to beat off over
LOL^^

yeah man I wouldn't do it at all, but if you want to, then the lowest risk is that the other guy said about asking her to come over to take some pictures together. However if you take pictures of you 2 together and then e-mail them to her computer or something then she could possibly cut herself out of the picture and still blackmail you, but at least it is a lot less risky.

However liek I said my opinion is to not do it at all, or if you do make sure your face and/or distinguishable body features such as tatoos, birthmarks, or scars are all cropped out as well.
 

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You could always give her neck down type of pictures where there'd never be any real proof that it was you.

Really though what the others have said about taking pictures together is the safest bet other than not giving her any at all.

Just make sure to keep a copy for yourself so you've got her naked too incase the blackmail crap starts.
 

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Never give her something without getting something of more worth in return.

Thus it would seem *she* has an appointment with the camera ;)
 
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Yes, I agree.

If she gives first... then you give. Otherwise, can you spell "Youre screwed"?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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